A Special Birthday

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Mary Frances Birthday
As published at “Moments of Life,” National Hospice and Palliative Care Organizationhttp://moments.nhpco.org/, April 2016

Karen, a long-time Homeland Hospice volunteer, was assigned to visit Mary Frances shortly after she was admitted to hospice services. Mary Frances lived in a skilled nursing facility, and although she had family who visited and the staff were attentive, the hospice Social Worker thought that a volunteer might cheer her days. Little did we know! Karen and Mary Frances became good friends over the year that hospice was in place. Weekly visits varied – wheelchair excursions out to the gardens in the good weather, bingo games, visits to the fish aquariums, lunches together, special homemade treats to enjoy, and mostly just good conversation. Karen is a school teacher, so often her third grade students at Saint Margaret Mary School made cards for Ms. Barna’s “special friend”. And as Mary Frances’ 92nd birthday came close, Karen hoped that a special celebration could honor her friend. The students made cards and planned a program of music and ‘speeches’. The day arrived – with balloons, a cake, family, staff, the students, the school principal and the volunteer. And Mary Frances thoroughly enjoyed it all, even as her health was declining – loving the ‘fuss’ that was being made, smiling brightly at the birthday greetings from the volunteer and her students. What a special day for a very special lady!

Volunteer spotlight: Andy and Sherry Lank

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Sherry and Any LankIn 2012, Andy Lank’s parents died within eight months of each other. In the midst of caring for them and then grieving their deaths, Andy and his wife, Sherry, found consolation from the people of Homeland Hospice.

“They really helped us through the grieving process and were able to ask the right kinds of questions that helped us process everything,” says Andy. “They make you feel comfortable to talk about grieving.”

Today, Andy and Sherry Lank, of Enola, are mainstays among the dedicated volunteers of Homeland Hospice.

“We were extremely pleased with the care and comfort Andy’s parents received,” says Sherry. “We wanted to be a part of it and give back.”

The hospice movement, founded by volunteers, continues to rely on dedicated people who share their time, talents, and compassion. Andy and Sherry bring the perspective of caring for loved ones at the end of their lives and finding comfort and support through Homeland Hospice.

“Helping people who are at the end of their lives makes you forget about your own aches and pains and problems,” says Sherry. “It’s hard to be . . .” She pauses, looking for the word.

“Sorry for yourself when you see the condition of someone else,” says Andy, completing the sentence.

Sherry, who started volunteering in 2012, helps Homeland Hospice patients with whatever they need, whether it’s getting groceries, reading out loud, or sitting and talking.

“One woman I visited, we’d sit and watch Hallmark movies,” she says. Sherry also helps with paperwork, freeing staff “to do more important things.”

Andy started volunteering in January 2015, after retiring from a career in installing and servicing dental equipment. Homeland Hospice personalizes services to the needs of families and patients, he says, and they understand that “everybody deals with grief in their own way.” He has helped with administrative work, built a storage shelf, and visited patients.

A U.S. Navy veteran, Andy also joined a new initiative to honor hospice patients who are veterans. He goes to them, wearing a Navy veteran’s hat, and reads a certificate recognizing their service.

“It makes me feel good to see that sparkle in their eye when you mention their military service and they see another vet honoring them,” Andy says. “It feel goods to touch their lives.”

Together, Andy and Sherry participate in Homeland Hospice fundraisers and events. He was the hot dog guy for the hospice yard sale. She went Christmas caroling to patients’ homes. The Lanks “help in so many different ways,” says Leanne Porterfield, Homeland Hospice Coordinator of Volunteers. “They’re always willing to jump in and help whenever we ask.”

Andy credits Sherry with bringing her upbeat and inquisitive nature to Homeland Hospice. Sherry says that Andy, with his infectious laugh, “is the kind of guy you just want to be around.”

When it comes to Homeland Hospice, both are ready to do whatever needs to be done.

“I hate to say no to them,” says Sherry, “because they never say no to us.”